ࡱ> 687` rbjbjss 4 r$$$$$$$8  8\^^^^^^$ h1 $$$   $$\ \  $$  @RW" \0  :   $4(  888888888$$$$$$ Dear Sir/Ms, I think it pertinent to say that democracy is based on the separation of church and state where the state deals with civil matters and the church sacred. This is important as we live in a society where a large proportion of the population are not church going citizens and as such their rights should not be treated in any way less than those who do go to church. The church has the ability to uphold the sacredness of marriage and it isin the churchthat marriage is sacred and not in the State, whereas the State has the responsibility to uphold the fair and equal rights of all citizens regardless of colour, affluence, beliefor sexuality. As such it is pertinent and important that the State fulfils its civil responsibilities and obligations to all of its citizens who elect it includingnon heterosexual individuals and same sex couples in providing them equal legal access and rights and opportunity to childcare, parenting, family benefits and superannuation. I have been a singlefather now for almost 9 years with shared parenting of my two children (week on week off). As I have been involved in relationships with men, my ex wife who is fundamental religious Christian has tried repeatedly and often to prevent me access to my children. This has included hiding the children - where I needed to get court orders to get them back, having my son taped and interrogated by the church to find information on me in order to prevent me seeing them, againI had to get court orders this time against the elders of the church and my ex wife to prevent it happening again, and again this year my ex wife has told my children lies about me to the point where my son doesnt want to live with me anymore. He and I are now having counselling which is productive but he now tells me he will not come back as I don't represent a ''Christian family''. Each time I have had problems with my ex wife I have tried counselling and mediation with her which she refuses, I am repeatedly lied to by her and most of the nine orders I have in place have again been broken this year. Her and her new husband has threatened me if I go to court again (which I am legally obligated to do) they will contact DOCs and they will destroy my relationship with my son. Regardless I am again preparing documents for a third round of court action simply to get Court Counselling with my ex wife so that these ongoing matters can be resolved and my children and myself can be treated in an open and fair manner. I love my children dearly, I have worked from home to be with them for the last 13 years, and am actively and lovingly involved in their lives. Yet I constantly am the subject of abuse, gossip and discrimination - particularly from the church. As a result of the stress I have ended up in hospital on a drip with suspected septic arthritis where my heart and lungs started shutting down and I was not expected to survive - my ex wife accused me of having AIDS. I have developed lupus and chronic fatigue as a result and at times have been totally incapacitated yet she repeatedly causes as much angst as she can and consequently sickness for me. I still have a strong faith but the church does not recognise that because of my sexuality. Neither does it recognise that I am a loving, caring father. Rather than supporting my parenting I am portrayed to my children as a bad influence who is going to hell and yet their mother who lies, manipulates the kids, has acted very abusively towards them is supported by the church. As a single father I live a nightmare simply because I am attracted to men and my children's relationship with me is constantly under attack much to their detriment and mine. Your actions and decisions can either empowerlarge organisations like the churches to further discriminate against individuals and couples like myself who simply want to love and adore their children. Alternatively you can act upon your civil and legal responsibilities to protect all those who comprise the multifaceted diamond of many cultures, beliefs and colours that is our society. I am no less a person than my neighbour, or the shopkeeper or someone sitting in a pew - but I am seen and treated as far less by many. Will you support and further that discrimination or will you see that I can be no less loving, no less caring and no less a good parent than someone who is simply attracted to the opposite sex. Yours faithfully, [Name Withheld] :E`oqr hh~+CJOJQJ^JaJhKiCJOJQJ^JaJhH&CJOJQJ^JaJh~+CJOJQJ^JaJ  {}LN`qrgdgd~+ r21h:p. 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