ࡱ> 465` bjbjss .   $h <<Q. `,+ g0   $<< $ I feel fortunate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled against those in same-sex relationships have been legislated against. For example, were I to give birth to a child through assisted conception, my partner's name goes on the birth certificate as that child's parent which is exactly what she would be. This is because in the ACT the term domestic partner includes partners in same-sex relationships and so where that term is used in ACT legislation my partner and I can essentially claim de facto status. This reflects how we live and who we are and we applaud the Stanhope government for achieving these reforms in relation to same-sex relationships. However, I can't think of a single situation governed by federal legislation that affords us the same right to define and determine ourselves and our relationships according to reality. I recently reached the Medicare Safety Net, due to medically assisted conception services, so can now claim the higher rebate this year but only for myself not my partner. No matter how much my total out-of-pocket expenses are in the year she will have to reach the $1000 threshold separately. This means that we essentially have to pay out $2000 before we can both claim the higher rebate as opposed to any opposite-sex couple, who simply decide to register themselves as a couple with Medicare, who only need reach $1000 jointly to enjoy the higher rebate. My partner and I have been together for 6.5 years and have been financially interdependent for most of that time and yet an opposite-sex couple, together for less time and/or who may organise their finances independantly of each other, can claim financial benefit simply because they consider themselves a couple and they are of the opposite sex. A number of situations governed by federal law that discriminate against those is same-sex relationships actually turn out to be financially beneficial for those same-sex couples. I am thinking of Family Tax Benefit (I would be regarded as a single parent were I to have a child and so would receive higher benefits and more Child Care rebate) and Centrelink payments (we each are eligible for a single persons payment and our payments are not based on our partner's income). And yet I would rather lose out on these payments if it meant achieving equal status under federal law with opposite-sex couples. So, this is not about us complaining that we don't get as many benefits from the government as opposite-sex couples as if all federal law recognised same-sex couples there would be areas where we would financially suffer as well as those where we would gain. And this isn't just about money. This is about recognition and equality. This is about allowing people to make their own decisions about what is a relationship, what is a family. My partner and I are in a relationship and together we are a family. All other members of our family recognise this, our friends and work colleagues recognise this and, luckily for us, our Territory government recognises this. How can the federal government deny what is so plainly true? Who benefits from this denial? Regards, Ruth Corris and Michelle Murray hu(Jhu(JCJOJQJ^JaJ y z  ij#$hirgdu(J 7$8$H$gdu(J,1h. A!"#$% @@@ NormalCJ_HaJmH sH tH DAD Default Paragraph FontRiR  Table Normal4 l4a (k(No List yz i j # $ h i r 00000000000000000h i r j0حh0h0j0   |fpw } XZ 3 u(J~S!@ ~   `@UnknownGz Times New Roman5Symbol3& z Arial?5 z Courier New"qhrf  !24 2HP(?u(J2I feel fortunate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled against those in same-sex relationships have been legislated againstSamantha EdmondsKate FitzgeraldOh+'0 @\h|    I feel fortunate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled against those in same-sex relationships have been legislated againstSamantha Edmonds Normal.dotKate Fitzgerald3Microsoft Office Word@0@޲S@F  against those in same-sex relationships have been legislated against Normal.dot1Microsoft Office Word  nate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled against those in same-sex relationships have been legislated against Title  !"#$%&()*+,-.1Root Entry FPH/+ 3Data 1TableWordDocument.SummaryInformation(DocumentSummaryInformation8'CompObjq  FMicrosoft Office Word Document MSWordDocWord.Document.89qRoot Entry Fh9Data 1TableWordDocument. 8'7 onships have been legislated against Title 4 $,  Oh+'0X lx    I feel fortunate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled SummaryInformation( 4DocumentSummaryInformation8CompObjq  FMicrosoft Office Word Document MSWordDocWord.Document.89q՜.+,D՜.+, hpx  d  I feel fortunate to live in the ACT where at least some of the forms of discrimination levelled against those in same-sex relati